2025 Is The Year For Growth And Success. Not Repeated Patterns And Distractions

There comes a point in life where the things that once consumed your energy no longer hold the same power. The chase, the chaos, the endless cycles of proving your worth to people who never truly saw you—it all becomes a distant memory of who you used to be. I’ve reached that point. I’m too old to waste my time chasing anything or anyone who doesn’t align with the version of myself I’ve worked so hard to become.

No More Chasing
There was a time when I believed love, validation, or even success required a relentless pursuit. I ran after people who didn’t value me, opportunities that didn’t serve me, and relationships that drained me. I wore myself thin, thinking that if I just tried harder, if I just gave more, I’d finally receive what I deserved.

But now? I don’t chase. I attract.

I’ve learned that what’s meant for me will come, not because I’m running after it, but because I’m walking in my purpose. If something or someone requires me to chase, it’s a clear sign it was never meant to be mine.

My Time is Valuable
Time is no longer a resource I’m willing to waste. Every moment spent on people who refuse to respect my boundaries, every ounce of energy poured into situations that do not pour back, is a moment stolen from the life I’m building.

I’ve come too far to let anyone take that from me. My time is a reflection of my self-worth. If you want to be a part of my life, you must respect that.

Coming Back? Come Corrected.
Here’s the thing: life is full of second chances. People grow, circumstances change, and sometimes, those who once left or hurt us feel the pull to return. But if you’re coming back into my life, know this—you’re not walking into the same version of me.

I’ve done the inner work. I’ve faced my shadows, healed my wounds, and rebuilt myself from the ground up. I don’t have room for half-hearted apologies, inconsistent behavior, or the same patterns that left me drained.

If you’re coming back, come corrected. Come with accountability, with growth, and with respect for the boundaries I’ve established. Anything less will not be welcomed.

Standing Firm in My Worth
This new season of life is about standing firm in who I am and what I deserve. I’ve embraced the power of saying “no” to what doesn’t align and “yes” to the things that uplift, support, and honor me.

I no longer fear losing people. What I fear is losing myself by allowing the wrong people to stay.

Final Thoughts
To anyone who’s thinking of re-entering my life, understand this: I’m no longer the person who will shrink, settle, or sacrifice for love, acceptance, or attention. I’ve grown beyond the need to chase what isn’t mine and cling to what isn’t healthy.

So, if you’re coming back, come corrected—or don’t come at all. My time, my energy, and my peace are sacred. And I refuse to waste them on anything less than what I deserve.