8 Things Not To Tolerate In A Relationship

If you are a STRONG woman there are a few things that a man should know to be able to come into a relationship and not try to change her in anyway or mess the relationship up. After so many trial and errors through out my life. I realized that some of these signs are what drove me crazy. To the point that the relationship just wouldn’t last.

1. Disrespect: Yes! Disrespect does go both ways. The disrespect I want to speak on is the part where he disrespects you in public or in private. By simple making rude gestures. Do not ever allow yourself to feel belittled in front of your fiends or anyone at that matter. If a man respects you and loves you this type of disrespect won’t happen.
2. When he tries to control you. He should never try to control you to the point the relationship has no balance and it is ALWAYS about him. There should always be a equal balance in the relationship to motivate and respect each other.
3. He should never push you our of your boundaries by knowing your worth and your values. He should know to never push you out of your boundaries to where it denies your self-worth.
4. He should support you and your visions. He should have your back even though he may not agree with you but the support alone should be there to guide you though your dreams and visions.
5. One of the hugest things is lack in emotional support. If he leaves you crying or can’t just allow you to vent when you need to vent. Then he may not be strong enough to be there for you emotionally.
6. I can’t stand a liar. Never allow anyone to lie to you. If they can lie about something small. Imagine what they will lie about something big.
7. Never tolerate cheating. I don’t care how small it is. If he doesn’t respect you to honor you then there is no point in even going but so serious in that relationship.
8. If he is always jealous than it is a HUGE sign of insecurity. Don’t waste your time trying to convince him, that he has you. If he doesn’t know than thats his problem. Girl! You have spent enough time already trying to build yourself up and be secure in your own self. You can’t spend your time trying to make someone know their own self worth.