How To Get Over Child Support

Let’s talk real for a second, mama.

If you’re spending your energy nagging your baby daddy to pay child support, it’s time to check that energy. Because the truth is: that’s not a wealth-building strategy. That’s a survival tactic in a system designed to keep you stuck. And you were never meant to stay stuck.

Yes, he should step up. Yes, your child deserves support. But let me be clear: depending on someone who’s already shown you they’re inconsistent is NOT the move.

Here’s the truth: Child support is a check. Education is a wealth builder.

You can’t control his behavior, but you can absolutely control how you respond. You can take the time you’re wasting chasing down a few hundred bucks a month and turn it into skills, knowledge, and income streams that last a lifetime.

Start that course. Learn that trade. Launch the business. Monetize your skills. Build something that doesn’t just get you through the week — build something that sets your child up for LIFE.

That’s the real flex: legacy over lack.

We’re not just raising kids — we’re raising future leaders, entrepreneurs, and cycle-breakers. So what are we teaching them when we beg someone else to take care of us? Instead, let’s teach them that we take care of ourselves, we invest in our minds, and we multiply what we’ve been given.

If you’re tired of feeling like you’re behind, exhausted from the begging, and ready to reclaim your power — this is your sign.

Here’s what to do next:

Stop chasing what isn’t chasing you back. Start investing in YOU. Show your kids what it looks like to break the cycle and build a new one.

You don’t need permission. You need purpose. And you already have that inside you.

Let the system owe you while you build your OWN.

Because when you stop chasing checks and start creating cash flow? That’s when the game changes. 💸💥

Ready to stop surviving and start building your legacy?

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