How To Step Into Your Purpose

For so long, I fought. Not just against the world, but against myself—against the demons I inherited, the patterns I had to break, and the weight of figuring it all out on my own. I wasn’t handed a clear path or a solid mentor to guide me. What I was left with was an inheritance of struggle, a life I had to piece together from fragments of survival and hope.

But I always knew. Deep down, I knew I was meant for more. I knew I was meant to have four kids. I knew I was meant to create a life that was different from the one I came from. And yet, the journey here has been nothing short of a battle—through addiction, through two failed marriages, through moments where I wasn’t sure how I was going to make it.

And still, I rose.

Coming Out of Survival Mode

For years, I lived in fight-or-flight—always trying to stay ahead of the next storm, bracing for the next heartbreak, working tirelessly to provide while trying to heal at the same time. But now, as my two youngest prepare to graduate, I feel it—this is it. This is my time. The doors are opening, and the opportunities I once only dreamed of are now within reach.

For so long, I was just trying to make it. Now, I’m ready to own it.

Stepping Into My Purpose

I look back and think, If only I had known then what I know now. But the truth is, every struggle, every lesson, every heartbreak shaped me into the woman I am today. I wasn’t just meant to survive—I was meant to thrive. And now, with the wisdom, the strength, and the resilience I’ve gained, I refuse to play small.

Now, it’s time to stand on business. To walk boldly into the calling that was placed on my life. To create, to build, to impact, and to break every chain that tried to hold me back.

A Message to Anyone Still Fighting

If you’re in the thick of it, if you’re still in survival mode, if you feel like life has only handed you pieces and told you to figure it out—keep going. The version of you who is healed, whole, and walking in purpose is already on the other side, waiting for you to fight through.

Because one day, you’ll wake up and realize: This is it. This is my time. And when that moment comes, don’t shrink. Step fully into the abundant life you were always meant to live.

I’m here. I’ve fought my way through. And now, I’m stepping into the fullness of my purpose. No more survival. Just abundance.

It’s time.

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