
I knew someone who was going through a lot in life and I told her that I would stand by her side. That we would start therapy and get through this together.
It’s now been over a year and she stopped after her 2nd appointment but I never did. I have come a long way but over the years I still have made mistakes and fell off track many times. But I decided to continue to keep going on top of building a relationship with someone that helps me in this journey. It has opened my eyes to so much and has helped me become aware of ME after so many years of repeated patterns and continued healing all the way from when I was a little girl. One day at a time I am learning healthier ways that aren’t self distructive. I ain’t going to lie the more you push to better yourself the more you get tested! That alone has taken more self discipline and I probably should be on blood pressure medicine bc it felt so much better to just punch someone in the throat.
Today I identified my strengths to have a heart of gold and would sacrifice a lot to help someone I love but my weakness is allowing it to get to a point where it became harmful.
In a situation like this – this is when you have to make yourself a priority, set boundaries, find balance and help others in moderation. So, it’s not selfish to make yourself a priority, tell others NO and FOCUS ON YOU!
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