Are They Making You A Priority?

Are we a priority in someone’s life or just an option to them? This can relate to any kind of relationship. With all the failed relationships throughout my life. I started to get wise.  It is kind of sad because when I look back at it now there is maybe just 1 or 2 people in my life that make me a priority and not just an option. When you finally see the difference when someone really treats you with respect and is loyal. It is easier to see which ones just have you in their life as an option. We need people in our lives that we can benefit from. We can not have those in our lives that are constantly bringing us down. Start treating yourself as a priority and don’t do this to yourself all the time. Choose who you have in your life with wise decisions. Here is a list of things that can show you if you have someone in your life and they are using you or not. Make a decisions today and stop wasting your time on others who don’t deserve it.

Here are a lists of 9 scenarios that helped me determine if they are making you a priority.

1. Is the other person always making you feel unhappy more than they make you feel happy? A huge warning sign is when you are constantly doing for them and they are not happy unless you keep doing for them all the time.
2. They don’t ever acknowledge things that are important to you. The other person always makes everything about them. In any relationship there has to be balance.
3. Are they truthful and honest with you? Do you feel like they are always being secretive about something? If so, you may not know exactly what it is but they hiding something.
4. Whenever they are around you, are you bored? This is a huge sign that they only are around because they need you for their benefit.
5. When you are just an option, there will be times that you feel unappreciated and taken advantage of. Your intuition is always correct. When you feel like someone doesn’t care, it is because the other person is not going out of their selfish ways to show you that they care.
6. Do they ever seem to show interest in what’s going on in your life?
7. Do you ever catch them in lies?
8. Are you always waiting on them and they are never waiting on you?
9. When you finally stand up for your intuitions the huge warning sign is that after you have done so much for them. They start making you feel like the bad person.

We all make mistakes in our lives but it is important to be AWARE of certain signs. It comes a time in life when you have to make a decision to just let them go. Don’t keep putting yourself through so much and be cautious of all the red flags.