5 Ways To Deal With Toxic People

1. There will be times that you have to set boundaries to protect yourself. That means to protect your peace and there will be times that you have to keep your communication very short with them. There will be times that you can’t answer the phone. This will begin the process that you are not always available to the one that just drains the living hell out of you with them overwhelming you with the negativity and complaining.
2. You can not always fall for the manipulation thats played to get there way with things. They will say and do everything they can to get the attention they want from you. Which is why a lot of the times it is so much better to not give the person any reaction.
3. You will have to learn to just say NO! You are able to say NO and not have to always give an explanation on why you had to say NO. Keep it simple and if they try to get you to explain why. Lovingly tell them that you do not feel as if you have to give them the reason and they then will see you are setting boundaries and if they get mad or upset. That is on them, let them throw their hissy fit and go on with your day.
4. You can have compassion for them by trying to understand why they are the way the are so that you don’t leave yourself frustrated with them. So many don’t even see that they even have a problem.
5. You have to TRUST them by their ACTIONS not by their words. They are the ones that have a whole lot to say and make promises they can not keep.

When you start feeling the vibes DO NOT ever allow anyone to walk over you and it shows when they never offer to help you in any way.