HEAL YOUR WOUNDS

I do want to make things CLEAR in the things that I speak on because I am not here to bash MEN in general. When I speak on TOXIC relationships sometimes it can also take 2 to be this way. This is why for one GOD puts things in order. Through out my life I never wanted to get my heart broke and the last thing I ever want is to ever hurt anyone else. It is very important to get the right healing that you need before you ever get even think about getting into a relationship. Especially when you yourself is dealing with HARD PAST HURTS. Because all you will be doing is bringing that into the relationship meaning well but ending up hurting everyone around you. All that will do is leave you in a vicious cycle of hurting one another. Striving to push forward and have only a half relationship that you won’t even be able to fully commit to because you are dealing with yourself and all the issues that are kept inside of you. The hardest thing I ever had to do was let go of someone no matter how much I cared of loved them especially when things should of never went as far as they did to end up doing nothing but going back and forth hurting one another and always breaking promises. Which I bring say NEVER make a promise you can’t keep. More than anything if you yourself are dealing with a lot of past hurts in your life and do not have your heart or your mind right don’t ever drag someone in the middle of all your issues. You will be fighting a never winning battle with things that you never even asked for. You will invite even more hurts into your life and more things that you will need to forgive and heal from when you are already dealing with unforgivenes, addictions or whatever that is even hindering you before you even walked into the relationship. More importantly if you go into a relationship without putting GOD number one in your life then that is a clear sign that things are not in order the way our FATHER intended things to be.