YOU ARE NEVER SENT TO FIX HIM

Through out my life after one bad relationship to another. I finally realized that I had an issue. An issue to thinking that it was up to me to fix the person that I was with. Throughout time I ended up learning about CODEPENDENCY and didn’t even know that was a thing. I thank the Lord, CODEPENDENCY was revealed to me. It helped me to come to realization that who I was with was never for me to fix them. Just because I saw potential in them did not mean that there still needed A LOT of work done within them and thinking that I could help them reach their fullest potential is not a reality when we are not on the same accord. In doing so I was lowering my standards and all it ended up doing was breaking me apart. Not that I am any better then any one else. However, it opened my eyes even deeper to think before I ever get into another relationship again. It is our responsibility to really know who you are getting involved with and when those red flags start coming up. You better start thinking more about what you are doing. Don’t ever get your feelings mixed up with thinking that you are meant to be with someone because you thought they were sent to you by GOD and that you have a responsibility to fix them. God puts things in order for a reason. This is the time to realize to not lower your standards when your flesh is happy. All that will do is dig a hole that is going to take a hard time to climb out of.

Rhonda Stanley

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